Valentine’s Day

Saturday is the day to show and receive love and affection. In many countries around the world, Feb. 14 is Valentine’s Day, the day for lovers and a day of friendship.

Customarily, husbands and wives, girlfriends and boyfriends have romantic dinners and give gifts, candy, cards and flowers.

The custom of giving flowers goes back to ancient Rome, where a friendly priest named Valentine gave marriage advice to young people.

He did this despite Emperor Claudius’ prohibition. Claudius did not want his legionaries to get – according to Christian customs – tied to wives and houses. But Valentine was looking for lovers, found them and married them. He passed out flowers to young couples who were walking by the garden of his monastery and asked the men to stay at home rather than go out to the battle.

One day, Emperor Claudius wanted to meet Valentine to find out about his wisdom. The emperor demanded Valentine believe in Roman gods, but Valentine told him he never would ask him to do so if he knew about the glory of God and his son Christ.
During his visit with Claudius, a council member asked Valentine what he thought of the Roman gods. Valentine answered that they are demons.

The council immediately requested the blasphemer’s death. During a delay Valentine asked for, he impressed the emperor with the truth of Christian belief. Claudius was deeply touched, but when Rome’s governor said Valentine was a magician, Claudius feared a revolt by his people and passed the priest on to Asterius, a judge, to decide his fate. While standing in front of the judge, Valentine performed a miracle. He made the judge’s blind daughter see again by praying and laying one of his hands on her. Asterius and his family were later baptized, but because their new Christian belief was counter to Roman religion, they were tortured and killed. Rome’s governor also tortured Valentine and he was beheaded Feb. 14, 269. Before he was killed, many young people visited him in jail. While in jail, a young woman visited him and helped him keep his spirits up. On the day he died, Valentine left a note thanking the girl for her friendship and loyalty. He signed it, “Love, from your Valentine.” That might have started the custom of exchanging love messages Feb. 14.

One hundred years after Valentine’s death, he was canonized. In 1550, in memory of Valentine, a memorial chapel was built in St. Valentin in South Tyrol, Austria.
Since Valentine’s martyr death, Feb. 14 is observed as a day of love. In former times, the night before Feb. 14, women tied laurel leaves to the four tips of their pillows. This was supposed to guarantee they dreamed of their true love. People also believed a woman would marry the the first man she sees in front of her house on Valentine’s Day. This was enough reason for a young man to be out early in the morning, and to reassure the feeling of his beloved one with a bouquet of flowers.
Another legend says the Duke of Orleans, while in prison in the Tower of London in 1415, kept sending love letters to his spouse, and not only on Feb. 14. Ever since, he has been looked at as the founder of valentines.

In the 17th century, author Samuel Pepys of London revived this tradition of writing a love letter to his wife Feb. 14. She was so thrilled about it and, in turn, gave him flowers. The British noble society took over the tradition of giving flowers and sending love notes soon after, and it was spread throughout  England and France.
In the 18th century, people in love started to send romantic greeting cards. In Germany, recognition of Valentine’s Day started in the 1950s when American Soldiers brought the British tradition to Germany. The Greeting Card Association estimates that worldwide, 1 billion Valentine’s Day cards are sent each year, making it the second largest card-sending day next to Christmas.